can you get any form of herpes if your partner performs oral sex on you while he has a fever blister? I have never had a cold sore or fever blister on my mouth or lips, nor any sores in my genital area. I have an area now that the skin has a wierd rough texture, it almost hurts, but for about a week it did hurt. I also have a dime size circle on my skin, directly on my tail bone. It is red and irritated. Never had anal sex. I thought maybe from the salyvia or something. Or am I just freaking out? I was married 24 years first time, only one partner. This marriage 4 years now. I have never had any problems in this area.